Have you ever asked yourself that?
"What's in my life?"
When you go to the grocery store, what is your main purpose of going?
Most people would reply, "To get food. Duh."
I hear a lot of the same things about grocery shopping. "I hate going to the store". "It feels like a tropical vacation when I go without my children." "I only go for 3 things and end up spending $50". "What did I just spend $100 on?"
My thoughts are this: a person goes to the grocery store to get food for his or her loved ones. That could be your family, as in, your children or pets. Your mom. Your cousin. Your siblings. Your neighbor. Your best friend. The children you babysit. The people next door that you don't know well, but they need a meal because of a tragedy.
Food is a natural reason for people who love each other to get together. Fixing a meal for someone is an expression of love for many people. When you were a child and you went to Grandma's house, what was the first thing she said to you? It usually had to do with some kind of baked goodie or a snack that she said she had in her kitchen. You knew that that was how Grandma showed her love for you.
I know that food shopping is a stressful thing for most people to do. Food is expensive and even when there's a deal, you feel like it could be better. When you are feeding a crowd of 15, exactly how creative can one get with pasta, sauce and cheese?
When you find yourself in such a mess, try to remember one thing: that you do this because you love your family. Food on the dinner table is a way to make sure everyone comes home at the end of the day. It's a unifier of souls. It causes conversation ("Mom, this is so yummy!"). It causes quiet moments because everyone is enjoying the delicious meal that you've prepared. It gives reason for people to wake up in the morning, because they know pancakes are on the table.
The fact that you have your loved ones in mind at the grocery store speaks volumes about what is in your life. The next time you look at your cupboards in your kitchen and you sigh, try to remember all of your beloved faces in your family when you cook for them. THAT is what the main purpose of going to the grocery store. To create memories and special bonds with your family.
Here's a great article to help you save money at the grocery store. My favorite is the playing your favorite upbeat music.
Here's a new cutie that a certain new mom gets to go to the grocery store for! <3